Oct 23, Messages: Gay sex was exactly as some other people have stated it was fireworks, passion, erotic, sensual everything heterosexual relations wasn't. After typing all this I finally got my anology. Jan 5, Messages: Not only had I lost the interest, I lost the ability. I was hard, and I came close once, but I just couldn't get into it. Can frankly tell you it didn't matter to me any longer;as sex with by BF is better than any sex I had ever had with a woman.
I would be with my wife but my brain would be elsewhere.
What is straight sex like for a gay man?
I only had sex with a woman before I had really found my place among the spectrum. When I was in denial and was having sex with women it was like eating at McDonalds. It was just like going through the motions, no matter how much we tried to shake things up, it never really seemed to get that much better. I think I can answer this question, but barely. I was with a girl for 2 years and the best way to describe it is "lacking". I hardly ever ejaculated because it wasn't arousing enough.
Do you already have an account? TMI, but we went at it for 2 hours and she climaxed a couple of times but I never did. Not long after actually lost the ability to even fake it, but by that time I couldn't have cared less about straight sex. The funniest thing is, after I broke up with my last girlfriend I finally choose to label myself gay, and she decided she was lesbian, and now we're still like best friends! Just realized that I never responded completely.