If sparks are going to fly between two gay men, let them fly on their own. Let us know what you'd like to see as a HuffPost Member. They should just enjoy our platonic company and be glad they don't have to go home with us. Real Voices. Not only do we not all enjoy doing all of the things many straight women assume we do going shopping, going dancing, talking about our feelingsbut we're often just as defective as the men they wish were more like us. Being gay is all about being gay. I never imagined that anyone who isn't gay would even care who's a "top" and who's a "bottom," or that they might not realize that some guys are versatile and others don't enjoy anal sex at all.
Help us tell more of the stories that matter from voices that too often remain unheard. Project Zero. They say straight men and women can't be friends. Unfortunately, I did end up meeting Felipe, the guy my friend Hollie prematurely pegged as my soulmate because, in her eyes, since we were both sassy and gay, we were probably destined to live happily ever after.
Perhaps if straight women spent some time on Grindr, they'd get it.