Good cleaning is also about relaxing your ass muscles and getting comfortable with the feeling of being penetrated before you start play. Remember that the colon is lined with thin, delicate tissue that is easily torn and punctured. It can come in handy! Not only are anal prostate orgasms more intense for men, but some, like myself, learn to love the feeling of the anal spinchter the circular muscle that opens and closes at the base of the colon, which is clenched tight and shut for most of your life and opens when you have to use the bathroom opening around an object, whether it be a penis, a butt plug, or hand. As with everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. I do body squats in the shower to push the water up a little deeper.
Be less paranoid about poop.
Some people bookmark this to their browser for quick reference. You will probably not take his fist the first time you try, and that should not be your goal. This paranoia has ruined sex for me several times in my life and frustrated tops who knew what they were getting into — literally. If you want to get fisted, do it the right way.
I am a bottom without shame or apology.