Look up sodomite in Wiktionary, the free dictionary. Part 2 [Please don't "silence" me because I see this is pending approval. It's kind of fun to watch the stupidity roll in. Church House Publishing, He writes that, with progress, problems have arisen in regards to how people overreact to the word. But more importantly, it doesn't matter.
The most common terms are gay both men and women and lesbian women only.
While retaining its other meanings, its use among young people as a general term of disparagement is common. This book does a really good job presenting the word from multiple angles. I do not use the phrase ever since I learned it's true meaning but I can't jump to offense when others use it in ignorance.
So I'm not real confident this will happen].