For example, the term "gay bar" describes the bar which either caters primarily to a homosexual male clientele, or is otherwise part of homosexual male culture. So what are you waiting for? I know that there's a lot of fear attached to rejection, but the worst thing that can happen is you get turned down, or you gain a platonic friend! But after serving as the resident advice-giver to my friends and to various people on the internet, I feel as if I'm not only qualified but obligated to share my expertise when it comes to dating online within the gay community. If you think they could be more than just aggressive in conversation, then don't do it. Using it to describe an object, such as an item of clothing, suggests that it is particularly flamboyant, often on the verge of being gaudy and garish. While being forward might be sexy if you're looking to hook up with a stranger, but sometimes it's not so sexy… and it comes off creepy!
No one can be!
You have to remember that there was a point in time before the internet where people met organically and in person! It is a subsidiary of The Pew Charitable Trusts. Kink can't be your entire life, but it should be a huge part of it if you're into it. The governors said, however, that Moyles was simply keeping up with developments in English usage.
For example, the optimistic s are still often referred to as the Gay Nineties.