It does not seem a good time at all Laura Beth. Show who you are. I love to wear hoop or hanging earrings in my ears, the larger the hoop better. Hello Kitty characters and diamonds score extra scene points, as well as being very feminine. Laser surgery will keep the raised scar.
Scene girls often wear outlandish, happy and above all feminine T-shirts.
As for now, my dad is still wishy-washy. Only our already declared enemies give them any credence. Welcome to the forums Meredith. Are you openly bi or lesbian? Ugh what a nightmare. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating. When you get your ears pierced, DO be sure to follow the after care instructions carefully.